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D;k bZekunkjh ,d vfHk”kki gS \ vius cpiu esa ,d dfork lquk djrk Fkk fd ,d fnu ,slk Hkh vk,xk tc yksx dgk djsaxs fd vkt lM+d ij ,d “kjhQ vkneh [kqysvke ?kwers ik;k x;k rFkk blh izdkj dh vU; ckras dh tk,saxh ftudk laca/k bZekunkjh ls gksxk ysfdu os gkL;kLin gks tk;k djsaxh A eq>s yxrk Fkk fd ;g le; vkus ls igys gh ge bl nqfu;ka ls tk pqds gksaxs ysfdu vc eSa ns[k jgk gwa fd ;g lc gekjh vka[kksa ds lkeus gh gks jgk gS A eSaus ns[kk gS yksxksa dks bZekunkjh ij Hkk’k.k >kM+rs gq, ] csbZekuh dks nqRdkjrs gq, ] pkSjkgksa ij csbZekuksa ds ckjs esa ppkZ djrs gq, rFkk ;g dgrs gq, fd ;fn os ogka ij gksrs rks ,slk u gksus nsrs oSlk u gksus nsrs vkSj eq>s Hkh yxrk fd “kk;n ;fn mldh txg ;s gksrs rks og lc u gksrk tks gqvk A ysfdu tc eSWaus ns[kk fd dy ;gh yksx Bhd ogh dj jgs gSa ftlds fy, ;s dy rd nwljksa dks dkslrs fQj jgs Fks rks fQj eq>s yxk fd ;s lc dkxth ckrsa o ek= cdokl gS A bldk okLrfod vkHkkl eq>s rc gqvk tc eSa Lo;a bl Qsj esa iM+k vkSj ;dhuu eq>s yxk fd gesa bl rjg dh ckrsa djuh can dj nsuh pkfg;s A laLd`r esa ,d lwfDr gS & oja ekSua dk;Za u p opueqDra ;nu`re~ A ;kfu >wB cksyus ls csgrj gS fd pqipki dk;Z djrs jguk pkgs og dSlk Hkh gks A arks gesa pqipki dk;Z djrs jguk pkfg, ctk; cdokl djrs jgus ds A ,d ckr r; gS rFkk gekjs ;gka vc lquh tkus yxh gS fd bl ns”k ls Hkz’Vkpkj feVkuk vc vklku ugha gS A dksVZ rd ns”k esa O;kIr Hkz’Vkpkj ls vkftt vk pqdh gS A rks D;k ;g eku fy;k tk; fd bZekunkjh vc [kRe gks pqdh gS ;k ;g ,d ,sfrgkfld pht gksus tk jgh gS \ tc bl ij lksprk gwa rks yxrk gS fd ugha ] ;g rks vHkh Hkh ftUnk gS ysfdu dqN “krksZa ds lkFk A ;g rc ftUnk gS tc vki ekfyd gksrs gSa vkSj rc [kRe gS tc vki eqykfte gksrs gSa A tc vki ekfyd gkssrs gSa rc vkidks vius izR;sd ykHk gkfu dh fpUrk gksrh gS vki vius foHkkx ;k daiuh ;k fdlh Hkh dk;Z esa lg;ksxh vius eqykfte ls ;g vis{kk djrs gSa fd og dk;Z bZekunkjh ls djs A vki mls dbZ ckj ;g le>krs cq>krs Hkh gSa fd og dk;Z bZekunkjh ls djs A ysfdu ;fn ge Lo;a fdlh ds eqykfte gksrs gSa rks gesa ;gh bZekunkjh ,d chekjh ;k jksx ds :Ik esa yxus yxrh gS rFkk vius ekfyd ls fNirs fNikrs ge cgqr dqN ,slk djus dh dksf”k”k djrs gSa rkfd viuk fdlh Hkh :Ik esa dksbZ Hkyk dj ldsa A

bl fo’k; esa ,d ckr dguk pkgwaxk fd yksx bZekunkjh ;fn ugha fuHkk ik jgs rks mUgsa vius egkiq:’kksa ftUgksaus viuk lkjk thou bZekunkjh ls fcrk nsus esa yxk fn;k ls izsj.kk ysus ds ctk; csbZekuksa ls izsj.kk ysuh pkfg;s A D;ksafd vius egkiq:’kksa ls rks ge mudh izR;sd t;arh ;k iq.;frfFk ij bZekunkjh ls dke djus dk ukVd djrs gSa ysfdu D;k ge ,slk dj ikrs gSa A ugha ] ge ugha dj ikrs D;ksafd u geesa vius egkiq:’kksa tSlk tTck gS vkSj u ge muls okLro esa dksbZ izsj.kk ys ikrs gSa A vkSj vxj ge muls izsj.kk ys ugha ldrs rks de ls de ,d ckj csbZekuksa ls izsj.kk ysa vkSj mudh bZekunkjh ij gh /;ku nsa A muls izsj.kk ysdj “kk;n ge viuh bZekunkjh dks cjdjkj j[k ldsa A eSaus csbZekuksa dks bZekunkjh ls dk;Z djrs ns[kk gS A vki lkspsaxs ;g dSls \ rks lqfu;s ] vki fdlh foHkkx esa ?kwl nsdj vk tk;sa vkSj ogka ij vius fdlh dk;Z dks NksM+dj vk;s arks ;dhuu vkidk dk;Z gks tk,xk vkSj ;fn mlesa dksbZ =qfV vkfn Hkh jgsxh rks og Hkh mlh O;fDr ds }kjk lq/kkj nh tk;sxh ftlds Hkjksls vki viuk dk;Z NksM+dj vk;s gSa vkSj ;fn mlesa dksbZ =qfV jg Hkh xbZ rks dksbZ ckr ugha iSls dh ped esa og Hkh dgha foyhu gks tkrh gS A bl laca/k esa vkidks ijs”kku gksus dh dksbZ t:jr ugha gS A ;kfu vkius tks /kujkf”k ogka iznku dh gS mlesa og lc {kerk gS fd og vkids dk;Z dh lHkh NksVh cM+h xyfr;ksa dks vkSj gka ;fn vkius dgha bZekunkjh dk jksx iky fy;k rks vkidks ;dhuu irk py tk,xk fd dk;Z dSls gksrk gS \ vki dh QkbZy tc rd iwjh rjg ls iwjh ugha gks tkrh rc rd vkidk dk;Z gksuk vlaHko gks tk;sxk A Hkys gh vkidh QkbZy ml csbZekuh ds /ku ls ikl dh tk jgh QkbZy ls dgha csgrj gks ysfdu mldk ikl gksuk vlaHko gS A ;g dksbZ ubZ ckr ugha gS ] ,slk gksrk vk jgk gS A ysfdu ,d ckr r; gS fd vki dke djuk lh[k tk,axs D;ksafd csbZekuh gesa flQZ csbZeku gh ugha cukrh cfYd dke Hkh ugha lh[kus nsrh A ubZ ckr tks gS og ;g gS fd ;fn ,d vk/k ckj gesa T;knk pDdj yxk dj bZekunkjh ls dk;Z djus dk ekSdk feyrk gS rks ge ,slk dj D;ksa ugha ikrs A vkidks dksbZ csbZeku vkneh ,d nks ckj ijs”kku dj ldrk gS ysfdu ;fn vki n`<+rk ls MVs jgsa rFkk etcwrh ls lkeuk djsa rks mls fi?kyuk gh gksxk rFkk og ckj ckj vkidks Vky ugha ldsxk A rks fQj deh dgka gS \ deh gekjh deZfu’Bk esa gS A gekjh fgEer esa gS A ge gh ugha pkgrs fd dk;Z bZekunkjh ls gks A rks fQj ge fdlh vkSj ls bZekunkjh ls dk;Z djus dh mEehn dj Hkh dSls ldrs gSa A gj fdlh t;arh ij ge cM+h cM+h ckrsa dj ds xka/kh lqHkk’k ;k gekjs Lora=rk lSukfu;ksa }kjk ikys x;s liuksa dh ;kn esa muds liuksa dks iwjk djus dh xtZuk,a djrs gSa rFkk fopkjrs gSa fd geas bZekunkjh ls dk;Z djuk pkfg;s ysfdu tc gesa pkj iSls nsdj ml d’V ls eqfDr ikuk pkgrs gSa tks gesa bZekunkjh ls dk;Z djrs gq, gksrk gS rks fQj gesa d’Vlk/; ekxZ NksM+uk gh vPNk yxrk gS A fQj csbZekuksa dks D;ksa dkslk tk; A mUgksaus dgha rks bZekunkjh dks cpk;s j[kk gS Hkys gh bZekunkjh ls csbZekuh djus ds vius fl)kUrksa dh j{kk esa yxs jgdj A ;fn vki csbZekuh ls ;k csbZekuksa ls LosPNk ls ;k vius ykHk gkfu ds n`f’Vxr yM+ ugha ldrs rks mUgsa dksfl;s er A iqjk.kdkfyd ekU;rkvksa esa vDlj ns[kk tkrk jgk gS fd jk{kl ges”kk ,d jgk djrs rFkk nsork ges”kk vius lq[k lqfo/kk dk /;ku j[krs gq, csbZekuksa ls ihfM+r jgrs rFkk tc rc vlgk; ls vU; izHkqvksa dh “kj.k esa tkrs fd os mls fdlh rjg cpk yas A bZekunkj vkneh nsork rks gS ysfdu detksj rFkk laosnu”khy A og csbZekuh ds jk{kl ls yM+uk ugha pkgrk cl xjhc dh tks: tSlh cu pqdh bZekunkjh ds tfj;s viuk dk;Z fdlh Hkh rjg ls gksrs ns[kuk pkgrk gS fd dgha ml ij dksbZ NhaVs u iM+sa ] mls dgha yM+uk u iM+ tk;s A lgek nqcdk rFkk fefe;k;k lk A tks gkyr csbZeku dh gksuh pkfg;s Fkh og vc bZekunkj dh gks pqdh gS A

dYiuk dfj;s fd ;fn vkidksa dHkh csbZekuh ls yM+uk iM+ tk;s rks \ rks vki D;k djsaxs A D;k yM+ ik;saxs \ ,d ckj gh lgh A yM+dj rks nsf[k;s A dkSu tkus vki rkdroj fudy tk;as A vc rks vkids ikl lwpuk dk vf/kdkj tSlk gfFk;kj Hkh gS A ;fn yM+ ldrs gksa rks yfM+;s vU;Fkk d`Ik;k csbZekuh dk jksuk u jks;as A vki ls rkdroj rks os csbZeku gSa ftu csbZekuksa ds fny esa ;g csbZekuh vkt Hkh ftUnk gS A D;k csbZekuh bZekunkjh ls ugha gksrh \ ;fn gka rks fQj bZekunkjh fdlh rjg D;ksa ugha gks ikrh \ ;g ne D;ksa rksM+ nsrh gS \ vkids ikl lc dqN gS ] dkuwu gS fu;e gSa iqfyl gS rFkk lcls cM+h ckr lp vkids lkFk gS rks fQj yM+us ls drjkuk dSlk \ FkksM+k /kS;Z j[kdj ns[ksa ] D;k irk vkidh esgur jax yk;s A vki ij bZekunkj gksus dk nkx gh rks yxsxk A nkx \ vki lkspsaxs ] nkx dSlk A th gka ] bZekunkjh vc ,d nkx ds leku le>h tkrh gS A dHkh csbZekuh nkx le>h tkrh Fkh vc bZekunkjh nkx vkSj jksx ds :Ik esa gekjs chp esa gS A cM+k vk;k bZekunkj dgha dk ] xka/kh th dk oa”kt A bZekunkjh ds uke ij vkidks dkslus okys ;gh yksx usrkvksa }kjk csbZekuh fd;s tkus ij mUgsa dkslus dk chM+k mBk ysrs gSa A D;ksa \ ogka vius dks nw/k dk /kqyk lkfcr djus esa dksbZ dksj dlj ugha NksM+rs A mUgsa f”kdk;r gksrh gS fd Qyk.kka ea=h brus djksM+ [kk x;k A vjs HkS;k ! usrk djksM+ksa esa ugha rks D;k gekjh rjQ lkS nks lkS ;k gtkjksa [kk,xk \ og djksM+ksa [kpZ djds lRrk esa vkrk gS rks djksM+ksa gh [kk,xk A vkidks D;k ijs”kkuh \ [kqn rks vki vius lkS ipkl ds fy, csbZekuh ls yM+ ugha ldrs vkSj nwljksa dks dkslus ls ckt ugha vkrs A

vki lkspsaxs fd vkf[kj eaq>s ;s jksx dkSu lk yx x;k fd eSa bZekunkjh dks ysdj cSB x;k A dkj.k gS fd eSus yM+us dh dksf”k”k dh gS A ml le; yM+us dh dksf”k”k dh tc fd esjs lHkh lkFkh yxHkx eq>ls vlger Fks A esjs dkj.k lcdks yxk fd eSa mudk uqdlku dj jgk gwa A yxuk LokHkkfod Hkh Fkk A vki lcls vyx gVdj tc dksbZ dksf”k”k djrs gSa rks ;s lc ijs”kkfu;ka Hkh vkrh gh gSa A ,d ckj Hkk’k.k lqu jgk Fkk ,d lTtu dk ] Hkk’k.k esa tks lquk og lkFkZd Fkk A ;fn vki dksbZ u;k dk;Z tks yhd ls gVdj gksrk gS djsaxs rks dqN ijs”kkfu;ka vkrh gSa A fdlh u;s dk;Z ds djus o blds lEiUu gksus ds chp pkj pj.k gksrs gSa A migkl ] mis{kk ] fojks/k ,oa lQyrk A ;kfu ;fn vki dksbZ dk;Z djrs gSa rks lcls igys vkidks migkl dk ik= cuuk iM+rk gS ] yksx vkids bl dk;Z dk migkl djus dh dksf”k”k djrs gSa aaa A ;fn vki migkl ls ijs”kku ugha gksrs gSa rks vkidh mis{kk dh tk ldrh gS A ;fn vki mis{kk ls Hkh fopfyr ugha gksrs gSa rks vkidks fojks/k dk lkeuk djuk iM+ ldrk gS vkSj ;fn vki fojks/k dk Hkh lkeuk lQyrkiwoZd dj ysrs gSa rks lQyrk vkids dneksa esa gksxh A Hkk’k.k izsj.kkLin Fkk rFkk mlesa dqN Hkh ,slk ugha Fkk ftls viuk;k u tk lds A cl mlds fy, dqN fgEer pkfg;s A mlls yM+us dh fgEer pkfg;s ftlls yM+us dh fgEer vktdy yksx tqVkus dh dksf”k”k gh ugha djrs A

,d fe= us dgk & ;kj ! ;fn deh”ku i)fr esa dksbZ ck/kk u vk;s rks dk;Z lqpk: :Ik ls pyrs gSa A eq>s yxk ] D;k dg jgk gS A ysfdu [k.Mwjh ljdkj dk tks gky fiNys nks lky esa gqvk mlls fe= dh ckr vuFkZd ugha yxrh gS A [k.Mwjh th dh D;k xyrh Fkh A ,d lkFkZd k ugha \ dqy feykdj ,d bZekunkj vkneh dks fVdus u nsus dh izo`fRr gh gS ftlus mUgsa gVk fn;k Fkk A ;g eSa vPNh rjg le> jgk gwa vkSj eglwl Hkh dj jgk gwwa A

ysfdu nwljh rjQ ,d u;k izdj.k ns[ksa & ;kstuk vk;ksx dgrk gS fd :Ik;s esa lksyg iSlk gh ;kstukvksa esa yx ikrk gS A fuf”pr rkSj ij [kqysvke bZekunkjh dks pqukSrh gS A bZekunkjh dks D;k cfYd dfg;s bZekunkjh ds vfLrRo dks gh pqukSrh gS A tc mldk vfLrRo gh lksyg izfr”kr cpk gks rks pqukSrh rks gqbZ gh A ysfdu [kq”kh vkt Hkh bl ckr dh gS fd foxr pquko esa foi{k }kjk yxkrkj detksj detksj dg dgdj izrkfM+r fd;k x;k bl ns”k dk ,d bZekunkj iz/kkuea=h vius usd bjknksa vkSj bZekunkjh ds otu ds vk/kkj ij gh iqu% lRrklhu gks x;k vkSj blls [kq”kh bl ckr dh feyrh gS fd Hkys gh bZekunkjh dk vfLrRo [krjs esa gks ysfdu og ftank gS rFkk viuh lkFkZdrk cjdjkj j[ks gq, gS A vc ,d vksj [k.Mwjh th dk jkT; esa ikapksa lhVsa gkjuk rFkk mudh bZekunkjh dh lkFkZdrk ij iz”ufpg~u yxuk ogha eueksgu flag dh bZekunkjh dh fot; A dqN yksx bls eueksgu flag dh bZekunkjh dh fot; ds ctk; detksj foi{k dh ,d vkSj ijkt; dguk ilan djsaxs A ysfdu eSa ,slk ugha ekurk fd bl thr esa eueksgu flag th ds bZekunkj O;fDrRo dk dksbZ ;ksxnku ugha A vxj bl ljdkj ds lkeus foi{k etcwrh ls ugha mHkj ik;k rks ;g Hkh lRrki{k dh etcwrh gqbZ A Hkys gh ;g ml jktk tSlh fLFkfr gks tks flQZ blfy, etcwr gks x;k gks D;ksafd mlds “k=q detksj Fks A ysfdu “k=qvksa dk detksj gksuk ;k etcwr u gks ikus dk Js; Hkh ml jktk dh HkkX;tU; ;k deZtU; fLFkfr dks gh nsuk gksxk A ysfdu fQj Hkh eueksgu flag dh jktuhfr esa csnkx vkSj bZekunkj mifLFkfr us ,d vk”kk dk lapkj fd;k gS rFkk foxr pquko esa bls eueksgu flag dh bZekunkjh dh fot; dguk Hkh vfrpkj ugha gksxk A vc bls D;k dgk tk; A dnkfpr~ ;g ogh fo’k; gS tSls fd dgk tkrk jgk gS fd [k.Mwjh th dh bZekunkjh esa yphysiu dk vHkko Fkk rFkk eueksgu flag th dh bZekunkjh yphykiu fy;s gq, Fkh A ;s yphykiu D;k gS \ ogh ftls vkt ge pyrk gS dh i)fr esa dg tkrs gSa A pyrk gS dgus ds ckn dqN dgus dh t:jr ugha jg tkrh gS A pyrk gS dgrs gq, rFkk [k.Mwjh th dh bZekunkjh ds Qsy gksus rFkk eueksgu flag th dh bZekunkjh ds mRrh.kZ gksus ds ckn eq>s fe= dh ckr cjcl ;kn vk tkrh gS fd ;fn deh”ku i)fr esa dksbZ ck/kk u vk;s rks dk;Z lqpk: :Ik ls pyrs gSa A

,d ckr dguk pkgrk gwa A esjs ,d fe= us eq>s xzke iz/kku dk pquko yM+us dh lykg nh vkSj dgk fd ;fn eSa xzke iz/kku cuwa rks dnkfpr~ bZekunkjh ls dk;Z djds eSa xkao dk dqN Hkyk dj ldwa A eSus mls iwNk & ru[okg dk D;k gksxk fdruk eSa ekfld vftZr dj ikmaxk \ og cksyk & HkkbZ ru[okg vkfn dk rks dksbZ fglkc ugha gS A iz/kku dh rks dksbZ ru[okg vkfn ugha gS A gka ] ;kstukvksa ds fy, iSlk vkfn feyrk jgrk gS A esjk lkjk mRlkg tkrk jgk A vkf[kj fcuk ru[okg ds dSls dke gks ik,xk \ eSa le> pqdk Fkk fd jktuhfr dh igyh ikB”kkyk esa tc fcuk ru[okg ds deh”ku ds lgkjs ] ljdkjh ;kstukvksa gsrq izkI; /ku ls dqN cpkdj tc viuk thou ;kiu izkjaHk djuk gS rks ge D;ksa vius usrkvksa ;k eaf=;ksa ls bZekunkjh dh T;knk mEehn iky cSBrs gSa tcfd iz/kku cudj xqtkjk Hkh gesa deh”ku ls gh djuk gS A vkf[kj dksbZ bZekunkj vkneh D;ksa dj jktuhfr dh bl igyh ikB”kkyk esa izos”k ysxk tcfd mlds ikl vU; fodYi ekStwn gSa A ,d iz/kku ds fy, ljdkj D;k lksp jgh gS bl ckjs esa fopkj djuk cgqr t:jh gsS A esjs xkao dh iz/kku dh ru[okg Ng lkS :Ik;s ek= gS rFkk Xkzke ds miiz/kku dk osru gS

[kSj ] ckr bZekunkjh dh gks jgh gS A geesas ls ftl fdlh dh fuxkg esa ;s iafDr;ka vk jgh gSa muls esjk djc) fuosnu gS fd os bZekunkjh ls bZekunkjh dks fuHkk;sa ;k de ls de dksf”k”k rks djsa A dkSu tkus ge lQy gks tk;sa A de ls de ,d ckj dksf”k”k rks djsa A de ls de ekg esa ,d dk;Z bZekunkjh ls djus dh dksf”k”k djsa A gks ldrk gS vki djrs gksa A ;fn djrs gSa rks vPNh ckr gS A ;fn ugha dj ikrs rks ekg esa ,d dk;Z djus dh dksf”k”k t:j djsa A gks ldrk gS fd dbZ ckj ge djuk pkgrs gSa ysfdu gekjk ifjos”k ,slk gksrk gS fd ge dj ugha ikrs A ogka ij ge viuk fl)kUr cuk ldrs gSa fd de ls de ge ,d dk;Z rks izR;sd ekg bZekunkjh ls djsaxs gh A T;knk ugha ekg esa ,d gh lgh A lIrkg esa ,d gks rks cgqr gh vPNk A jkst ,d dk;Z bZekunkjh ls gks tk, rks \ vkSj ;fn gj dk;Z gh bZekunkjh ls gks tk, rks \ ysfdu bruh cM++h mEehn ikyus dh fgEkkdr eSa ugha dj ldrk A blfy, gesa vius dk;kZsa esa bZekunkjh dk FkksM+k lk lekos”k rks dj gh ysuk pkfg;s ftruk Hkh ge dj ldsa mruk Hkh cgqr Hkyk dj ldsxk A ;dhuu A lkspuk dfBu gS djuk dnkfpr~ vkSj T;knk dfBu yxs ysfdu D;k dksf”k”k Hkh ugha dh tk ldrh A ;dhuu dh tk ldrh gS A blfy, ;fn ge bZekunkjh esa ,d izfr”kr dh Hkh c<+ksrjh dj ik;s rks vanktk ugha yxk ik;saxs fd fdruk Hkyk gks tk,xk A blfy, bl mEehn ds lkFk bl ys[k dks fojke ns jgk gwa fd dnkfpr~ ge FkksM+k cgqr gh ifjorZu yk ik;sa vkSj fldqM+rh tk jgh bZekunkjh dks vkSj fldqM+us ls cpk ldsa A

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